Sincerely, Harp.

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Status…

Her: I can’t believe I let all that go. I miss him but I feel like I’m just being strung along. 

Me: How does he make  you feel outside of sex?

Her: Idk… wanted? 

Me: Okay what else?

Her: Sexy. I mean idk… i don’t know how to articulate my feelings. 

Me: *Still being optimistic* Okay I’ll help you. Does he make you feel loved? Special? Inspired? Does he make you want to be a better woman? Does he make you laugh? Smile? Calm on your most turbulent days? 

Her: Well no. 

Me: Then he’s not the one and you already knew that. Going deeper you don’t even want him. You’re just bored or extremely anxious. Maybe even lonely and you just need something to tie you over until the one makes himself known. 

Maybe it’s time we all boycott those people who can have sex with us but won’t date or better yet commit to us. People go through too many changes when they’re not honest with themselves about what they want and what all they can handle. 

There’s a saying “know your status” and you should most definitely, but you should also know your status in that person’s life. Knowing your role can make your life a lot easier. 

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Sometimes it’s hard but u must remember not to try and make a home out of everything you touch….

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I go through phases. Somedays I feel like the person I’m supposed to be, and then somedays, I turn into no one at all. There is both me and my silhouette. I hope that on the days you find me and all I am are darkened lines, you still are willing to be near me.
Mary Kate Teske (via larmoyante)

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Silence.

This month is almost over and what I’ve become awaken to is:

1. Moving in silence is key. Moving in secrecy is bondage.

2. The best way to keep money is behaving as if you have none; and on that note once you’ve experienced something real having replicas just doesn’t do. For example I want me a new purse but my taste is a bit up there. Idk where this acquired taste came from but while I can get the purse I want at what cost is what stops me. It does no good to spend so much money on one thing but your rent isn’t paid. At this point having money in my bank account seems more intriguing than having it on my feet or body. I read somewhere “wealth is quiet, rich is loud, and poor is flashy”….. I’ve learned its always good to be quite concerning my life. Once again moving in silence could be the key to eliminating a lot of stress and confusion.

Filed under finance life relationships love friendships Harper Stewart

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You are so good. So good, you’re always feeling so much. And sometimes it feels like you’re gonna bust wide open from all the feeling, don’t it? People like you are the best in the world, but you sure do suffer for it.
Silas House, This is My Heart for You (via larmoyante)

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The Buddhists say if you meet somebody and your heart pounds, your hands shake, your knees go weak, that’s not the one. When you meet your ‘soul mate’ you’ll feel calm. No anxiety, no agitation.
Monica Drake, Clown Girl (via larmoyante)